<p>后面又开始阴阳我，每天忙实习和考研的事情还要去应付她，想过分手，她又不愿意。老哥们支个招吧，或者有什么经验让我参考一下</p>

<p>看不下去了，分了吧，别想了，有毛病无理取闹</p>

<p>早分早好，跟这种女人就算后面在一起也是一地鸡毛，何况我现在看你根本没有男人的尊严</p>

<p>建议能当面说，就不要微信上谈</p>

<p>是我的问题吗？我咋看着就像PUA呢？</p>

<p>兄弟我给你一个我的亲身经历，我和我对象以前有段时间也这样后面我连续三次当面吵架大声吼她，她说什么我都吼回去，现在她小鸟依人的说我好有男人味好喜欢</p><p><img src="https://i3.hoopchina.com.cn/hupuapp/bbs/13/42314013/thread_42314013_20201026230808_s_3123_o_w_152_h_160_70752.jpg?x-oss-process=image/resize,w_225/qulity,Q_60"/></p>

<p>我感觉是她只是想以分手作为要挟，达成某种目的吧。女人都喜欢作，只是你这个有点作过头了，很容易弄巧成拙玩脱了，你还想谈就花点心思哄一下，不爽直接分了完事，反正对你来说也没什么损失。</p>

<p>跟我女朋友一样一样的，就一句话，我本来可以找比你有钱的，找了你你不得惯着我吗，你不惯着我就是不爱我</p>

<p>兄弟不能太惯着她了，她现在就是把你对她的好当成一种理所应当，你之前一次又一次的妥协与退让，把她惯坏了。可以惯可以哄，但一定要有原则和底线啊！你哪次不退让了，就会让她觉得你不爱她了，对她不好了，反而她觉得是你不珍惜她了，你俩地位到后面一旦悬殊过多，说难听点，你那时候就没价值了，不过楼主如果还是想继续的话，我建议先当面哄好，然后过个一两天出去玩的时候开心的时候给她讲道理，让她明白你的良苦用心！祝楼主好运！如果后面真说没法过了，楼主也要做好准备！恋爱长久一定是双方平等，双向奔赴</p><p><img src="https://i4.hoopchina.com.cn/hupuapp/bbs/3/thread_3_20220829111322_s_45612_o_w_856_h_596_50448.jpg?x-oss-process=image/resize,w_225/qulity,Q_60"/></p>

<p>看到你这我心里都开始难受了</p><p><img src="https://i5.hoopchina.com.cn/hupuapp/bbs/268/27421268/thread_27421268_20220317112134_s_101479_w_855_h_861_74144.jpg?x-oss-process=image/resize,w_225/qulity,Q_60"/></p>

<p>这还不分？留着过国庆吗？</p>

<p>一模一样的</p><p><img src="https://i3.hoopchina.com.cn/hupuapp/bbs/0/0/thread_0_20220731165903_s_25909_o_w_810_h_595_79234.jpg?x-oss-process=image/resize,w_225/qulity,Q_60"/></p>

<p>我和我女朋友每次吵架她都让我滚，我二话不说收拾东西就要走，然后收拾到一半她就会和我道歉，后来她每次想让我收拾东西了都会找个借口和我吵架让我滚然后看着我收拾完东西才和我道歉</p><p><img src="https://i4.hoopchina.com.cn/hupuapp/bbs/36156277916587/thread_36156277916587_20201202025404_s_28106_w_422_h_462_33335.jpg?x-oss-process=image/resize,w_225/qulity,Q_60"/></p>

<p>横竖都是你的错，她就是想要个出气筒，目的就是想把你引导成对她百依百顺，不管什么事错都不在她，什么问题都要你按她的方式来处理。典型的pua，不分留着过年？</p>

<p>哈哈哈哈哈哈哈诡计多端的女朋友</p>

<p>直接分手，分手只是通知，还需要另一方同意？又不是离婚，她找你复合也别急着答应，好好整她一回就老实了</p>

<p>你就说我忙，没空跟你说这些。自己消化</p>

<p>如果谈恋爱要讲道理，而不是义无反顾的偏爱，那叫什么爱？<br><br>中国就是这种没脑子的小仙女太多了！！讲道理，是人与人相处的最基本准则！<br></p>

<p>兄弟，但是你这个情况跟楼主不一样，楼主这个女朋友真会作，很会PUA，又很双标，更自私……</p>

<p>哈哈哈哈哈哈哈，如何让男朋友心甘情愿的收拾家务</p>

<p>把时间放在自己身上，我当年跟我前对象一起考研，她就硬作，要消化人家情绪，老子在考研不是在玩，但是人家不管，我需要你你不在，那搞对象干嘛，还觉得自己委屈的不行，建议让你对象赶紧滚，少作。你妥协的代价就是考研必失败。虎扑老哥：成年人只做选择，不做教育</p><p><img src="https://i11.hoopchina.com.cn/hupuapp/bbs/756/58409756/thread_58409756_20210114002315_s_764_o_w_54_h_58_74213.png?x-oss-process=image/resize,w_225/qulity,Q_60"/></p>

<p>我看见那句“我要你干嘛”，血压就上来了，这***又不是他爹。真的给她脸了。[生气][生气][生气]</p>

<p>一点锋芒到，随后枪出如龙？</p><p><img src="https://i11.hoopchina.com.cn/hupuapp/bbs/0/0/thread_0_20220917192655_s_28112773_o_w_480_h_852_64497.gif"/></p>

<p>同亲身经历，虽然没说过好有男人味，但从来不敢作，知道作，自己也没好下场。<br>相反现在让我办点事靠撒娇，一撒娇，我也就心软了。[奸笑]</p>

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以前太惯着女朋友了自食恶果

是八戒还是猪

JRs进来帮我分析一波，女朋友这样我该分手吗

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